Let me just start off by saying it. I eat meat and enjoy it. Beef, bison, chicken, fish, even reindeer*. All of it is yummy.

I know that there’s unhealthiness in that carnivorous practice, especially with the swine and sadly, I’m sure I’ve ingested my fair share of pink slime. :s But alas, I’m a Meat Eater.

And I’m raising a couple of Meat Eaters too. We talk about healthy food choices, try to limit the sugar, eat our veggies, take our vitamins, etc. I feel like we’re your average meat-eatin’ Amuuurrikan family.

Which is why a new children’s book peaked my curiosity. It’s called “Vegan is Love.”

I was given an electronic copy before it was released earlier this week and though I hadn’t read anything beyond the title, I admit I was prepared to roll my eyes. I mean really, why would I buy a book from someone who not only refuses to eat meat, but also won’t wear any animal products? That means no leather purses or strappy heels. I’m kidding, really PETA folks, I’m kidding. Some of my best friends are vegan.

Ahem, back to the book… I actually liked it. It’s written and beautifully illustrated by activist, artist, writer and former teacher Ruby Roth. It explains what a vegan is and why those choices are important. It says: “we live this way because that it is good for our health, the earth and animals … and that is love.”

After explaining veganism, it talks about wearing clothes that are not made from animals. Then it covers animal testing, and what struck me was that the illustrations of the clearly depressed animals also showed their bloody ouchies.

Pretty heavy stuff for a children’s book, right? This book is aimed at kids who are ages 6 and older.

Next the book discusses child-friendly concepts such as zoos, aquariums and circuses and why these activities are bad for animals. It offers vegan-friendly alternatives, for example instead of the zoo, go to a ballet.

The ballet scene is my favorite. The dancers clad in plum-colored and starry costumes are all mid-air, their muscular bodies in various angles on the pike position. There’s no doubt, Roth is a talented illustrator and has a knack for having very emotive characters.

Her book also discusses the health benefits of being a vegan and how, essentially, the world would be a better place if everyone were vegan. The environment _ from the ice caps to the forests and oceans _ would improve and there wouldn’t be world hunger.

Granted solving these complicated problems aren’t nearly as black-and-white as this book proposes, but it *is* a children’s book.

The book has dusted off a controversial debate about whether being a vegan is healthy for children. The Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics says vegan and vegetarian diets are safe for children. In fact its Web site says “well-planned vegetarian diets are appropriate for individuals during all stages of the life-cycle including pregnancy, lactation, infancy, childhood and adolescence and for athletes.”

Still yet, some child psychologists and dietitians take issue with Roth’s book out of concern that it could scare kids into being vegans and create feelings of excessive guilt for having or wanting an animal product, especially since, as the book says: “vegan is love.”

In a statement Roth says “it’s high time we engage youth in topics previously reserved for adults – democracy, supply and demand, and engaging ourselves in the public realm. Fast food companies don’t think your kids are too young to be marketed to.”

I think if you choose for your family to be vegans, this book would be a good addition to conversations that should already be taking place in your home about your choices. If you’re not vegan, I can see how it could serve as a way to open your child’s eyes to other lifestyles. I’m all for expanding horizons and learning about other people’s life choices.

However, even if Logan was 6, I’d hold off on this book until he’s a bit older or at least until we’ve had a few more conversations to build a more comprehensive foundation on issues such as world hunger, pollution, and saving the environment.

As we all know, those issues are not black and white. The truth is in the shades of gray.

*Little Rudolph was part of a stew Hubby’s mom prepared in Norway. It was tasty, a little gamey, but no, not like chicken.

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A Meat Eater’s Take on the Controversial “Vegan is Love” Book — 10 Comments

  1. I saw this discussion on The Today Show a couple of days ago. I feel the same way about this book as I do about kids eating McDonald’s Happy Meals. If you don’t want your child exposed to the dead animals and/or ideals in the book or the calories in the Happy Meal, then don’t give your child the book or the meal!
    Good parents are the people who know their children best. If it’s too much for your child don’t expose him or her to it until they are ready. None of the “experts” speaking on the topic were vegan. They spoke of how non-vegan kids would think they are doing something wrong because the book is titled “Vegan is Love”. Really? If that’s the case the parent should spend time working on their child’s self esteem issues and not worried about that book! I’m not vegan, nor am I interested in the topic, so it’s not something I would buy for my child and that’s ok. Just as ok as it is for Vegan families and those who are interested in the the lifestyle to buy the book for their kids.

    • I agree, good parents are the parents who know their kids best. We shouldn’t all just blindly follow. One thing that was mentioned to me when this book was pitched to me was that the Today Show piece didn’t include any vegans. Which I think is just plain bad journalism, but the Today Show isn’t really journalism any more, it’s more infotainment, but I digress. There should have been vegans, I was considering reaching out to one for this post, but ran out of time, which is why I’m glad to see so many in the comment section here to provide different viewpoints.

      Thanks for stopping by!!

  2. Mel- great post! I’m a fellow meat eater, and although I don’t see myself or my family embracing a Vegan diet, I love the ideas the book discusses and the quote that struck me the most is: “it’s high time we engage youth in topics previously reserved for adults – democracy, supply and demand, and engaging ourselves in the public realm. Fast food companies don’t think your kids are too young to be marketed to.” Amen to that!!!

    • I KNOW!!! I loved that part too. I don’t see myself becoming a vegan, but I love the whole: fast food companies don’t think your kids are too young… I believe that we should expose our kids to things, and since we parents know our kids best, we know how to best approach them on sensitive issues. Books, articles, informative TV shows, etc. should all be additions to conversations and lessons that are already taking place in the home.

      But you’re the learning guru, not me, so not sure why I’m babbling on about this to you. I’ll just say thanks for the comment and try to exit gracefully stage left…

  3. I am vegan and I can’t understand how anyone can have a pet that they “love so dearly” and yet eat meat. In my opinion, this book is just what, not only children, but adults need. Adults were raised with meat in front of them, they forget or more likely do not even realize the torment, fear, torture and cruelty that is done to living beings that went on for their fancy steak. It kills me. My children will be raised healthy, will be shown animals as beautiful creatures with feelings not additions to meals. If they ask why their friend has a hot dog and they do not, I will tell them and explain what it is and why we do not eat it. This book being “too early” is ridiculous….it’s unfair to force a child to eat meat when they do not realize what it is. By the time they find out, because they were “shielded”(I don’t see anyone shielding the animals and their pain) that is normal to them…what a cruel joke. I am sure many kids have seen Bambi or Babe or Charlottes Web and ask questions/are sad and yet their parents feed them meat or dinner-sick to my stomach. Adults and children to wake up. Being proud of being a meat eater is sad- you eat those that can’t defend themselves….good for you, feel powerful.

    • Thank you for your passionate comment. Honestly my meat eating isn’t about me feeling powerful, but you and I are at opposite ends of the spectrum. I’m glad you came on here to voice the vegan opinion as it’s great for readers, adults and children alike, to be exposed to diverse viewpoints. 🙂

  4. Choice is important… I choose not to do cocaine, although it’s available to me. I’ve tried it and it’s fun; sort of makes you feel invincible for a time. It was a one time deal for me though because my CHOICE affects not just myself, but those I care about – family, friends, colleagues, etc. Same goes for my diet… I’m drawing this parallel because let’s face it: We’ve trained our human brains to crave and believe that meat tastes good. We’ve gotten to a point in time where chefs have mastered the temperatures and seasonings to make animal flesh satisfying. Although, the choice to eat it doesn’t just affect me… It affects the planet on a pretty extreme level – more pollution than all the cars in the world combined! Pesticides and antibiotics are being found in our water supply because of the runoff of feces and urine that come from these tortured creatures. I hate to say it, but the pleasure found in eating meat is a purely selfish one. The fact is: eating animals and/or their secretions cause cancer… The statistics don’t lie. Read The China Study or if you’re short on time, check out Forks over Knives. The agenda of the veggie community is to share the secret to health and happiness and create a better world… However, the agenda of these “death industries” is purely dollar $igns. I don’t mean to make anyone feel guilty about their choices, but since they are affecting MY planet too, I’m going to be an activist on this until it’s no longer necessary. Letting children in on the truth is probably the most important thing we can do right now. I believe that the parents are just fearful that change is in store, and most humans (being comfort seeking creatures) avoid change. Trust me though, this change is very much needed to combat obesity, diabetes, heart disease, cancer, pollution, deforestation, animal abuse, and so much more. Vegan truly IS love…

    • Ah yes, change is hard and many people avoid it. I, however, like change, even though I find it scary. I think of change as “stretch assignments,” of which I’ve had a lot over the past year. However becoming a vegan is not a change that I see for myself and my family anytime soon. I’m so glad you’re an activist and that you’re going to be until, as you said, “it’s no longer necessary.” I believe everyone should have their causes, whether it’s defenseless animals or defenseless women and children, or the defenseless environment or something else. It’s important for people to follow their passions and do what they view will make the world a better place. Thanks for stopping by! 🙂

  5. What a noble writer! I applaud anyone who is putting their creative talents towards the delicate topic of the atrocities we inflict on animals on our plates, in our clothes and in our labs! Lights are being shone directly on this huge issue, and I am loving it!

    • Amen! I agree, it is great to see someone using their creative talents for good. And since it can be a delicate topic, I think this is even better because we do need tools to help open our children (and our own!) minds. The most important thing is having conversations about such issues, but to use the book as a back-up, or to help drive home the point, it’s wonderful. I know I get very excited when there are children’s books that represent multiracial families. When we read books, my kids pick up on how the people/families in the books don’t look like ours. I try to bring a diverse representation of books into the house, as it’s good to have what’s happening inside the home be reinforced through TV shows, books, talks with other families. I feel like I’m talking in circles, but hopefully you get what I mean. :s Thanks for stopping by.

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